Women in their 30s

I think its foolish to advice women in their 30's to simply marry anyone that crosses their path because they are already getting older and will have no partner as they grow older.

Times have changed, if you are in your 30's and marry just about anyone, the remaining days of your life could even be more painful and filled with hardship.

What if you marry someone who hits you? someone who cheats on you? someone who does not have a job? what if you marry someone who is too lazy to build a family.

Marriage is not a race- love is not a race. Do not compete- decide according to your time- not the timeline of the world. 

I think it is unfair- what we should be advising women today is to empower themselves.

Learn to sustain their life, how to invest in their own business- how to manage their own income- how to enjoy life whether they are with someone or not.

We create weak women by telling them that they are simply nothing without a man.

Times have changed--stop sticking to this traditional thinking-- Marry because you are ready and you love someone and prepared to go through every struggle life has to offer...

And not just because you are afraid of being alone--Lady...no marriage can guarantee you --that you will no longer feel alone. The feelings of loneliness and despair can only be solved by you--not by someone else.